How Being (vs Doing) Can Help You Achieve Your Goals
After sixteen years of coaching and working with hundreds of clients, I believe one of the most profound impacts we can have on ourselves and each other is to become […]
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Posted ‘I’m Not Angry’: – Alan Alda Says About Living With Parkinson’s
Yesterday Alan Alda did a very brave and important thing: he showed us how very difficult things can propel us forward in a positive direction. Revealing he was diagnosed with […]
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Posted You Are Invited: Finishing School 2016
What are your most profound experiences of loss or change? Was it when you were a kid, and your best friend left your school and moved to another town? Do […]
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Posted Cherish the Struggle
Lizzy oversees corporate communications for a nationally known software developer. Over a five-year period, while maintaining her significant work responsibilities, Lizzy had four miscarriages. [...]
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Posted Woulda Shoulda #3: Bringing It Home
Honorable Closure requires a certain amount of rigor. One has to be willing to go the distance in order to resolve regrets and move forward into the future on a […]
Woulda Shoulda #2: How to Resolve Lingering Regrets
Woulda Shoulda #2: How to Resolve Lingering Regrets “Make the most of your regrets. To regret deeply is to live afresh.” —Thoreau In our second meeting, I took Shannon through […]
Fail Forward into Learning
Joe just completed a 6-month work engagement. Happy to complete one consuming body of work and pave the way to the next, he called me for an Honorable Closure session. […]
The Agony of Defeat–Lessons from Sochi
“If you aren’t falling down, you aren’t learning anything” — My high school ski instructor In a […]
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Make The Most of Your Regrets
“My regrets keep coming back to haunt me. How can I resolve them and move on?” This question was raised during the Q&A portion of a public talk I recently […]
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Anger – It’s an Inside Job
Holding on to a grievance is one way we tie ourselves to the past and limit what is possible for ourselves in the present and future. Here is a great […]